Just the way you are....

I know- it's a top ten song, so it's gotta stink, right? But I think this guy is special. Granted, I am a teenage girl and gullible to "feel good" songs, but maybe it's not such a bad idea to preach to teenage girls that they do look okay, and that they don't need to change themselves. With all of this shit going around with anorexia, drinking, teenage suicides and the whole lot, someone needs to be telling us that we're beautiful (No thanks, Snoop Dog, sorry we "can't all be California girls"). Too often these days, I see people trying to be someone they're not. It gets them to the better parties, the cooler friends, the whole nine yards. You don't need to do any of that to find your niche. This is what Mr. Mars is telling us (even if it is for the million dollar paycheck that will roll in), and he's darn right. His other song, "Count On Me," is a comforting tune for us emotional teenagers.

Stop telling us to change for you -- accept us for who we are, because that's what we need to hear. Media is all about telling the customer what we need to hear, but those things are changing every day. There is so much peer pressure to shop at these stores, to hang out with these people, to be people we're not. I'm thankful that there is someone out there who knows the right thing to be feeding us. Everyone else needs to learn the same thing.

Featured song: "Just The Way You Are" (but "Count On Me" is better) by Bruno Mars

Kings of Leon just keep changing my life.

There are some bands out there who can have such a profound affect on your life. First you feel melancholy. Then the thoughts come on hard. Songs like Radioactive, Manhattan, and (yes, I know) Knocked Up open the floodgates to new thoughts and ideas whenever they come on the radio. Granted, some of the lyrics may not reflect the aura they cast, but listen to them. They make you want to change your life and make a difference.
It's strange how much music can affect your life. These songs make you feel deep; sad almost. It takes such depth and experience to write these things, but it also takes hard, raw, soul. If you listen to Caleb Followill's voice, you may notice that it's not groundbreaking. But the way he uses it can bring you to tears. He sings with so much feeling and emotion, and whenever a song of his comes on, people unconsciously stop talking and listen to it. They inspire people to reflect on things, and think deeper than your normal fleeting thoughts. So today, I'll post three songs instead of just one. Please take some time right now to listen to them -- they change my life every time I hear them.


Songs of today: "Radioactive", "Knocked Up", and "Manhattan" by Kings of Leon

So Alive

I have some issues with my parents. Most teens do, or at least think they do. I don't have huge reasons, like she abuses me or anything, but they are existent nonetheless. The problem is that I grew up too fast. I've been self functioning since second grade. She never saw any of my homework or read any of my stories, because they were already done. With this behavior, came lots of freedom. I could watch TV most whenever I wanted, and I liked to spend a lot of time on the computer on pen pal sites and things like that. By middle school, she stopped checking on me before bedtime, and at first, this was awesome - I was a big kid now! But soon after, it became difficult, for she never presented herself to talk about important things, like friends, stress, or emotions. Whenever I felt impelled to approach her about any of these things, it always appeared that she was either too busy, too tired, or already taken by my (high maintenance) younger brother. So I kept these things bottled up and let them out on my friends, which I didn't have very much of, by the way. But my mom didn't know; we had never talked about it.
So through middle school, I had to grow and develop myself without parental guidance. Whether by nurture or just pure luck, I think it worked, and it makes me the person I now am today. She still doesn't talk about things, though I do try sometimes. Days like today though, get me worried that there is something wrong, or that maybe she is depressed. I'm learning how to drive, you see. We had to drive an hour away and an hour back for a function of mine today, and the whole way, she showed no sign of emotion. I like to keep a commentary going about the cars around me and what kind of moron they all are. She neither contributed to the conversation, nor reacted to it. If I were a parent, I think two hours in general isolation would seem a great time to discuss things, but no such things ever occur to her. Sometimes, it's like she's dead inside, and all she thinks she's here for is to feed our greedy mouths and clothe our ungrateful backs, but I need more from her. You may think this would exhaust her, but I think it would please her. If only she'd make herself available.... Parents: you are never too old to tuck your child in at night! I wish so bad that mine would once in a while.

Song of the day: "So Alive" by Ryan Adams (I'm trying new links and methods of making my songs available, so if this one doesn't work, go ahead and use the good ole Project Playlist version)

The high road is hard to find....

Cause they know, and so do I
The high road is hard to find
A detour to your new life
Tell all of your friends goodbye....



What is the "High Road"? Today this question occurred to me many times as this song flitted through my head. Does it mean riches? Does it mean a life of excellent morals? High school may give this phrase different meaning than the rest of the world, so you older bodies may disagree;


The High Road, is for people who know how to be themselves. Sound shallow? It's actually a very hard thing to do at this age. I get up every morning and as I'm picking out my clothes, I automatically think "do people think I look stupid in this?" and every morning I catch myself and efface such thoughts. I'll wear what I like, thank you very much. I see people around me, who do not have this correctional mechanism; they like to shop where everyone else shops, and to wear what everyone else  does. They are not expressing their personality, but rather reflecting everyone's around them. That is the easy road to take, but the high road is hard to find....


So if you are on "the easy road," blending in with your friends and submitting to the peer pressure to be like everyone else, take the next exit and begin driving towards The High Road. Stop befriending those who want you to be normal; Tell all of your friends goodbye....


A detour to your new life is staring at you. Right here, right now. Are you on board? Can you find The High Road?


Song of the day: "The High Road" by Broken Bells

We're in the driver's seat

I think we all know that teens can have very fluctuated images of themselves; even me sometimes. We think we are invincible. All of the things we learn about drugs, DUI's, sex; we think none of these things can happen to us. Today I got my driving permit. My thoughts beforehand were "this will be easy," and "I know how to do this, I drive in a car everyday." But after immediately forgetting my seatbelt and almost running a stop sign, I realize how wrong I was. There was so much to think about - seatbelt, street signs, pedestrians, cars parked on the side of the road, headlights, speed limit, turn signals - it was overwhelming. It's in this sense that teens don't realize how much they need to pay attention to, that WE are in the driver seat, and that there are so many obstacles all around us. Some we swerve to avoid, but others we crash into head-on. Those are the ones you hear about the most; the teen pregnancies, and drunk students. The ones you don't hear about as much, are the ones about people who saw the kid run into the street a block away, and the ones who stop completely at stop signs, look both ways, and proceed carefully. The kids in Spreading Peace, Debate, and MESA (Math Engineering Science Achievement) are neglected, yet they're the ones with the headlights on.
We need to stop and look around, to see the nice houses and yards we're driving by, and to be careful of the other neighborhoods we may wander into, with molding roofs and sagging porches. Our generation holds so much more power then we believe. We're the ones to inherit the warming crisis, overpopulation, the digital age, and the crushing obesity rates. Can we do it? We'll just have to wait and see.

Rose

Song of the day: "If It's Love" by Train

Springfield High

Let me tell you a bit about Springfield High; it is located on one city block in the middle of a lower class neighborhood. All around it are intact or decaying ranches, low income apartments, a dirty business district, and a drug haven disguised as a city park. Yet, my school is host to the sons and daughters of doctors, lawyers, and yes, even a rocket scientist. This environment gives you such a broad scope of the people out there. For example, one of my friends, Haley, gets most of her clothes from Target or secondhand stores, while Jaycee has yet to wear the same shirt twice this year. Sometimes, our differences surface unpleasantly. Just the other day, Jaycee was going out to lunch for the fourth time this week and egging Julie to come with. 'Come on, have some fun! This is high school; live it up." Haley finally snapped that she didn't have any money, and never would for something like that. Rather than being ashamed, Jaycee was annoyed that Haley didn't want to come.
Situations like this really reflect the kind of environment one was brought up in. Haley has always had to scramble and save for every little thing, while Jaycee had her possessions spoon fed to her mouth. It doesn't necessarily mean that one is greedy and the other is not. It's only that they know only what they've been taught. For one, it's "just ask and you'll receive (How It Ends by Devotchka)" and "work for what you want" for the other.

Writing a Blog that nobody will read

What could be any better? I can see myself spending weeks and months writing and updating my blog, yet no one will read it. Why is this okay? I feel like publishing my thoughts online gives others a chance to know me, to know what it's like to be a teenager. If you want to know, here's your opportunity.

I am a freshman at an American high school- let's call it Springfield high. All around me, every day, I am seeing the results of peer pressure, self image, hormones, almost every teenager-ism occurs in Springfield, and I have to wonder how the media got so many things wrong. As I walk the halls, I don't see people who are 'popular' and others who are not. I don't separate the losers and the preps, the nerds and the jocks. At our school, it's cool to be a nerd. For example, the girls varsity soccer captain - Madison - is also the editor of the school paper. One of the football team's wide receivers won the MESA competition a few years back. And marching band is full of successful athletes in track, soccer, and volleyball. Springfield is not your stereotypical high school, but a place for you to be who you want to be, to do what you want to do, and to wring the last bit of fun out of your childhood.

I'm going to try to log on and add to this blog everyday, but at least once a week. We'll see. I have a busy schedule, so it might be interesting. My goal is to get a few readers- even three would be ahMAZing, but I know I am not yet a fully developed author, so that may even be shooting to high.

Until next time,
Rose